being selfish...

i do believe that there is a slight feeling of selfishness in everyone of us...which comes out more or less at different points in life....what differs is that some of us have a very low controlable level of that and some of us have an outrageously high one!! it's just a natural instinct....

unselfish people get crushed by selfish individuals..and NO i am not only sounding mean..it's just blunt reality...

selfishness hurts...and especially when you realize that you can't change the people....and there you go, idealistic little miruna that always hopes for the best...here you have it...you have to learn to be like that....

is there any class at the university, the art of being selfish? i could enrole....they would probably accept me as the most naive applicant...

i don't think that there is a problem with being selfish as this is a thing that all of us have in a certain degree....but yes as a good friend said, the real issue is to see it and realize it with your own eyes and be able to work it out and perceive things from the other person's perspective...otherwise we would end up all alone in our selfishness, or we would end up hurting people constantly and not even be aware....

it sounds tough...don't really know where all this came from....i just came to think that all human relationships are build on give and receive actually...and if you just sit around and wait to receive and don't give nothing in exchange....well...i can't say that it is impossible...it is possible to live like that...but would we be happy? would we be in content with how life looks and the things that we believe in?

in the end people just get tired and walk away.....

oh wait...but we wouldn't give a damn about it either....

having a small hope...